People want to improve their speaking skills so they can influence, persuade, and win. But very few want to put in the time to improve this skill. As you know, there are no short cuts to developing and mastering any skills. Ben Hogan, a great American professional golfer, when asked what was his secret to success in golf? He would point to the ground and say, "it's all in the dirt." He meant that unless you engage in deliberate practice in pounding many golf balls every day, you are not going to improve your game. This applies to speaking skills. My "hoganese" answer to this is "It's all in the videos." I will show you what you can do in the next thirty days to set yourself apart from the rest in improving your speaking skills. It will be hard in the beginning, but after thirty days, you will be able to speak to anyone, anytime, anywhere. Are you ready to improve this skill? What is the 30-Day Challenge? You will record a three-minute video on any topics for 30 straight days. It is that simple. Unfortunately, I can't even get people to record even one three-minute speech. I have found when I talk to the audience, and I ask how many will record one three-minute speech, all the hands typically go up. But do you know what percentage actually do it? Just one percent. That's right. Even with smartphone cameras, it is tough for people to record a simple three-minute speech. For example, I recently coached a job candidate. I asked him if he can put together a 3-minute speech on why someone should talk to him about the value he can bring to a company. He said it should be easy since all he had to do was record it on his iPhone. I told him about the low percentage of people who actually follow through. He said he will definitely do it. Since I didn't get his video the next day, I sent him a script to make it easier. A week has gone by, and I still have not received his three-minute video. So as you can see, it looks simple, but it id very hard in practice. Why take the 30-Day Challenge? Here are some of the benefits of taking this Challenge:
What process to use to record a three-minute speech? I used the following process when I recorded my speeches. I spent no more than one hour on each speech.
Note, you can always go back and redo a speech after you finish the 3/30 Challenge or make it unlisted or private on YouTube. Examples of 30 speeches from the 30-Day Challenge Here are my 30+ speeches: Intro Speech: Title: The 3/30 Challenge to Improve Your Speaking Skills Link: https://youtu.be/ebijyw9CdoI Speech 1: Title: Who should you NOT listen to in order to become an excellent speaker? Link: https://youtu.be/n1nhf8p-lfw Speech 2: Title: How do you answer 'what do you do' question? Link: https://youtu.be/OFg5rrZ2xOQ Speech 3: Title: Lesson learned from "The Peanuts" Movie Link: https://youtu.be/KS4xjI0nQ8E Speech 4: Title: Networking Tip for Professionals Link: https://youtu.be/ac3p5RXUDo8 Speech 5: Title: Networking Tip for Amateurs Link: https://youtu.be/UKHyspL-IB0 Speech 6: Title: Don't purchase anything you are not going to use right away Link: https://youtu.be/BpKCQDWrO7U Speech 7: Title: Secret to Donald Trump's success with the media Link: https://youtu.be/HEb-qZ929PU Speech 8: Title: Analysis of a scene from the movie Godfather II -- Part 1 Link: https://youtu.be/C1mO-b6GdxM Speech 9: Title: Analysis of a scene from the movie Godfather II -- Part 2 Link: https://youtu.be/rb5_xBr0opY Speech 10: Title: Analysis of a scene from the movie Godfather II -- part 3 Link: https://youtu.be/gVjEMz-L4Hw Speech 11: Title: Giving attribution in a speech Link: https://youtu.be/AJvLvxnvWAg Speech 12: Title: Why you don't want to give a flawless speech? Link: https://youtu.be/khx2GLKhWI8 Speech 13: Title: How a three-minute speech can save you time, money and energy? Link: https://youtu.be/yFwQ6hgxfrs Speech 14: Title: Interview Tip for Amateurs: What if the key decision maker can't meet with you? Link: https://youtu.be/enjlAPfd2ew Speech 15: Title: Interview Tip for Pros: What if the key decision maker can't meet with you? Link: https://youtu.be/LjlNWqHe8Hw Speech 16: Title: Difference between a solopreneur versus an employee Link: https://youtu.be/xFlKI-gsDzo Speech 17: Title: The 60/30/10 Principle of Sales Link: https://youtu.be/KqaAZLTLR40 Speech 18: Title: Importance of coaching Link: https://youtu.be/5hj3SFyW60o Speech 19: Title: How Under Armour motivated my son to exercise? Link: https://youtu.be/LmBNF0Si5Ag Speech 20: Title: When did Barack Obama know he could be the president in 2008? Link: https://youtu.be/8SVa6A5Re94 Speech 21: Title: Job Interview Tip: Resume candidate vs. Potential candidate: Whom do you hire? Link: https://youtu.be/SDm2BNlU1Yo Speech 22: Title: Job Interview Tip: Are you a star candidate or a sucker candidate? Link: https://youtu.be/isS4jDNiPeo Speech 23: Title: How important is motivation to your success? Link: https://youtu.be/7HQipWsxrNo Speech 24: Title: Why I am still not a cool dad? Link: https://youtu.be/LhOf5Iqqrvk Speech 25: Title: How to turn a ten dollar speech into a million dollar speech? Link: https://youtu.be/u1cAuSXhcOE Speech 26: Title: What is the most important question you must ask a hiring manager? Link: https://youtu.be/LplG_JJBI0c Speech 27: Title: Donald Trump is very transparent if you read "The Art of the Deal" Link: https://youtu.be/WvKZdvCVg7U Speech 28: Title: Can creativity and productivity co-exist in companies? Link: https://youtu.be/CJTYpL0UPiU Speech 29: Title: How did Gandhi become the "Mahatma"? Link: https://youtu.be/duKDq7-WuhY Speech 30: Title: How to come up with catchy phrase for your speech? Link: https://youtu.be/q00Kgd32h1k Speech 31: Title: What insight helped Gandhi helped gain India its independence? Link: https://youtu.be/NauQvXmiIN4 I hope you take this Challenge because I feel it will help you become a better speaker than you were before the Challenge. Good Luck! ##### Jay Oza is an author, speaker, executive coach. He makes people thrive on high stakes stage whether it's for a job interview, a sales presentation or a high-stakes speech. He is the author of a practical book Winning Speech Moments: How to Achieve Your Objective with Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere. You can get this book on Amazon for 99 cents for limited time. Please download the free speech checklist that you can use to help you create a winning speech for any situation. Please contact him if you would like to have a two 75 minute coaching session on job interviewing or high-stakes speaking. If you are interested in inviting him to give a talk on job Interviewing or high-stakes speaking. You can reach him at [email protected].
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9/16/2021 09:00:20 am
I am a 70 year old retired business owner and often get asked to speak. I’m not afraid and generally have a good message but have a recurring issue with sentimentality. I get choked up for some reason and often it shows in my presentation. It’s a mental thing that was evident in my father who spoke often but had that sensibility that he was doing something that people would be very proud of him and it made him sentimental to the point he would bring tears. How do we fix that once and for all? Also I have developed a tremor in my left hand from Parkinson’s. I feel a need to reveal that to the audience.
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